You Said He Was Finished
He Was Finished

These two songs share the story of a romantic affair caught in a constant push and pull. One partner reaches for closeness and tries to offer reassurance; the other, with a dismissive-avoidant pattern, feels the urge to pull away just as that closeness begins to grow.

The struggle runs both ways. One keeps trying to say, “You are safe with me,” while the other finds intimacy difficult to stay with. The more connected they feel, the stronger the impulse to retreat and run.

It becomes a painful cycle of reaching out, drawing back and trying again. Both songs explore the longing and frustration of that relationship: wanting to be close to someone, yet finding that closeness is the very thing that keeps pulling you apart.